“Me Monsters” August 2019
“Me Monsters” There's a comic who talks about being where he meets new people. He says it seems that every party has one guy who just can't stop talking about himself, his superior stuff and how wonderful, powerful & amazing he is. The comic calls them "Me Monsters". Truth is, it's human nature and many folks just get good at doing it subtly.
In the Bible--Mark 9, between verses 33 & 35 where we see the same tendency in Jesus' own disciples. That's right, the men who lived & walked with God argued about which of them was #1! Two brothers even had their Mom go to Jesus to ask him to seat them at his right & left hands in Heaven!
Jesus’ answer in Mark was: “Anyone who wants to be first must be the very last, and the servant of all.” An ice cube down the back to remind them--& us of a significant part of the walk with God.
In the world, if you can get people to serve you—you’ve arrived. At the 4 Seasons resort in Bora Bora (an 11 Sq. mi. island in French Polynesia) your every desire is met by a number of servants---for only $1623/ night. !!!! As some would say, it’s only money. Personally, I've bought cars that ran for less.
Jesus’ answer is so contrary to the world’s idea of greatness that we have a hard time understanding it, much less practicing it. Ecclesiastes says there's "nothing new under the sun" & 2000 years ago the disciples argued about who’s #1. We’re still at it.
Even in church it's easy to get self-focused. We often say things like: The music was good for me - gave me a boost. The people were nice to me. The bulletin was easy for me to follow. Good service.
Don't get me wrong, the Word and some inspired, Bible-centered preaching should touch us, but how & why? Certainly I'm not suggesting that you should not find joy in the church experience or that you should look to complain! But how does worship challenge you to grow in Christ even when you don't "enjoy" it?
Jesus tells us that our relationship with God (not mere religion)--is not all about us. Jesus turns the Me Monster away from self, and points to service, where it's harder to be self-focused.
It's not about me, it's about magnifying God, it's not about having lackeys, it's about making disciples. We should be asking what we did for the worship. What we do for the Kingdom of God. It is a natural outcome of loving God to the point of serving with a clear focus on Him.
It's interesting, many books have been written on leadership, but few on servanthood. Apparently, most of us would rather be generals than privates.
Oh, and in case it isn't obvious, being a humble servant in order to be #1 is definitely not humble nor is it serving for the right reason. Jesus' answer to his disciples is about having and maintaining real humility, not pretending. So I offer encouragement to those who fight, and even defeat the Me Monster. Don't give up--the more we try, the more likely is success. Have at it! Pastor Geoff " This is what the LORD says: “Let not the wise boast of their wisdom or the strong boast of their strength or the rich boast of their riches. " Jeremiah 9:23
“ House on the Rock” July 2019
Most people in church have heard of Jesus' parable of the wise & foolish builders from Matthew 4: 24-27. It reads: “Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock. But everyone who hears these words of mine and does not put them into practice is like a foolish man who built his house on sand. The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell with a great crash.”
As we celebrate July 4th this month, it is wise to remember that this has more to do with our personal lives and government than with our houses.
It has become popular for those to write history to judge the beginnings of this country through the lens of the present as far as motives and choices. I guess it makes people today feel as though they’re better people than they actually are, making smarter choices than they actually do. Many alterations of history come from this, such as the idea that the American Revolution was NOT all that revolutionary. That it was just a revolt motivated by money and the self-will of agnostics & deists, definitely not Christians. One must have an unusual pair of lenses to draw such a conclusion.
In the 1600s, Wm Penn said: “Those people who will not be governed by God will be ruled by tyrants.” The idea that God gives us the “inalienable rights” of the Declaration of Independence--- came from 100s of sermons preached long before 1776.
What a heritage the present-day patriot has.
From the beginning, our nation had a solid foundation. Individuals like George Washington and John Adams honored God and revered Biblical principles. Many of the founding fathers were Christians--- in fact, of the 56 men who signed the Declaration of Independence, nearly half held seminary or Bible school degrees. They were unapologetic about their faith in Jesus and it provided our country with firm foundations.
George Washington said, “While we are zealously performing the duties of good citizens and soldiers, we certainly ought not to be inattentive to the higher duties of religion. To the distinguished character of Patriot, it should be our highest glory to add the more distinguished character of Christian.”
Atheism believes there is nothing but the material. It says it denies any faith--Yet they have enormous faith in their own wisdom to conclude such a thing. A matter-based philosophy is fundamentally self-centered; therefore, though it may mouth patriotism, it is only patriotic when serving the self. “What’s in it for me?” “I’m on board as long as I get what I want out of it.” This necessitates elevating self—me—at the expense of God. Government gives me my needs and rights, so I can fabricate whatever “right” I want. In this mindset, The Constitution is out-dated, because it does not serve me first. These be dangerous waters.
The revolutionary part of the founding of these United States is the idea that God has given us "inalienable rights" and that "We the people" allow our Republic some, limited, authority.
I submit that True patriotism in the American Context, is not and cannot be based on atheism-or the "goodies" some politician promises to give you. They're usually at the expense of the real freedoms of the Republic.
You’ll be happy to know that I’m not the first to think this. George Washington agreed in his Farewell Address, “Do not let anyone claim tribute of American patriotism if they even attempt to remove religion from politics.”
And Patrick Henry said “It is when people forget God that tyrants forge their chains.” Pastor Geoff
"There's Something about That Name!" June 2019
Nothing like a good, short vacation. I've seen studies that indicate a short "get-away" of a couple of days is more relaxing, refreshing & recharging than a week or so. A month ago my family and found that to be true. We went out to see the event at Sight and Sound Theater in Pennsylvania. The name of what we saw was Jesus, and I have to admit that the thought occurred to me that "I know how this comes out"! Not really in the jaded sense, just that for the time & money , I was hoping for a renewing perspective on some fine points of biblical truth. And frankly, I wanted to be-"wowed".
Well, I was.
That "wow" was helped by the fact that somehow they managed to get 3 fishing boats on stage, bouncing in waves. And that they managed an underwater scene complete with fish. And the rather convincing life-threatening storm-tossed boat. Certainly, for those mechanically inclined, the staging and movement of massive 20-30 foot-high sets was fascinating and perfectly-timed. Technically amazing.
I'm happier to note that there was much more to it than snazzy tech & a "wow" factor. It brought a reminder that the people involved in what we know as the Gospels, were real people. Some smelled of seawater--and fish! Some were funny & some serious. After three days, Lazarus' tomb smelled--which was powerful reinforcement of the miraculous nature of the event. Jesus used real spit & mud on the blind man. All had personalities. Not that this made the events of the Bible merely average or human. Quite the contrary, there was a reality in it that reminds us that Jesus was and is very real, both God and human. That what we believe is true, & trustworthy. That when we call on the name of Jesus, we call on a reality.
So when you think of the name "Jesus", what do you think of? Miracles? Peace? Transformation? Salvation? Meaning to life? Hope? Power? Love? Now that you see them, you probably think all of these! And hopefully many more. At different times, with different needs we certainly can and should think of things Jesus does--that Jesus is! This is vastly more than wishful, feel-good thinking precisely because He was and is real. Certainly the fact that He lives today gives us perspective, hope and peace. As Isaiah wrote, "Of the increase of his government or peace there will be no end." (9:7)
Sure, life brings aggravation, outright sorrow, health problems, money problems, people problems, etc.. But Jesus has come for such times --see the very partial list above. We must let ourselves have confidence in the reality of Jesus and find refuge and relief in Him. We are not to worry, we are to call on Jesus & ask Him to deal with our troubles and trust the reality of His loving interest and His real power. As the old hymn says, "There's something about that name!" Pastor Geoff "That at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of things in heaven, and things in earth, and things under the earth; and that every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is LORD, to the glory of God the Father." Philippians 2:10,11
“Days-Gone-By” May 2019
My family and I just returned from a short trip to the Strasburg, PA area. Our main purpose was to see the Sight & Sound presentation of Jesus, which was decidedly, unapologetically scriptural. It was also quite simply, spectacular--to the point of action which included 3 ships, a camel, the Temple & towns! Not at the same time, of course.
Of course, that was only about three hours of our trip. The rest of our time was puttering around the surrounding Amish Area, enjoying the scenery--the all-you-can-eat buffets, the sounds of horses. Those men and women driving a 1 horsepower buggy at the side of the road busy with giant semi trucks and zooming tourists are indeed fearless. Living the "old" mere inches away from the hazards of the high-power "new" has a variety of dangers, but coming in from the "new" and being a serious student of things historical, the old has its attractions. Apparently crowds of people, using many various languages, share the attraction. Some are content to just look at real people living the old, take photos, send them half-way around the world and then be on their way--thankful for what they have Others pay to live with the Amish and experience a bit of the old basics firsthand.
Whatever their level of experience, I think anyone who bothers to go see Amish-Land has some yearning for the days gone by--to get back to the basics. There are many things we were all reminded of about the days-gone-by. For those who think that the world will be more pure without cars, let me assure them---Amish country smelled much more of what the horses left behind than it smelled of the lilacs I left behind at home! Interestingly, according to a 2006 UN study, livestock "generate more greenhouse gas emissions...than transport." The old ways were never all "tea & scones" as Mom used to say.
The basics are, well, basic. It's easy to think how swell & quiet it would be while we look at our computers. Meanwhile Amish guys are brushing down their teams of horses after following them around a field for 8 or 10 hours. Amish wives have finished half the day doing the wash and are praying that it dries on the line in the 45 degree weather before the rain--with dinners cooking and keeping tabs on the kids.
Simpler times--weren't! If only living without the cares of the world was possible. Amazingly, it is possible.
The Bible was written in a time when a really bad growing year in your area could cause the loss of more than your farm. You could lose your life and even that of your family. Some of the world still lives in much the same "simpler" time, but people are still the same. In time of plenty or little, it has always been easy to ignore or doubt God, or even think we or our stuff are the Most Important. Clearly, the same words of Scripture that changed such a "simple"-but-sinful world as that of Jesus' time have relevance even in our own complex-but-sinful one. Even something as ordinary as driving shows that the basics for some folks is simply "me first".
Living with the basics allows focus on the most important things. As a Christian, they are important to review and ponder to make sure we're on the right track in pursuing the various directions required in life. What are basics for the Christian? The Apostle's Creed has summed them up for centuries. The basics are: Monotheism; the Holy Trinity; that sin is real; the deity of Jesus Christ which is how salvation comes through him alone; salvation by God’s grace and not by works; the Resurrection of Christ; the Gospel and sharing it. The more we consider these basics with faith and humility, the more they move from our heads to our hearts and hands and the more fearlessly we meet the dangers of this life as they whiz by.
Questions about living out the basics? I expect so, which is why we seek out Bible-based preaching, prayer and people Pastor Geoff "Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. 13 Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. 14 And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity." Colossians 3:12-14
"Silence is Golden"
"Silence is golden." A phrase dating from at least the 1300s, meaning that sometimes it's actually better not to say anything. I've heard it used as a command around rambunctious kids, and it often is the best response in a charged marital moment. Seems to be a concept which appears meaningless in this day of the firehose of information and constant commentary on the internet, the radio and t.v.. Oh, that it was the motto of Facebook, Twitter, Instagram & Snapchat! The lives that would be calmed, enriched-or even lengthened by being spared the nosy busybodies or outright malice. I, for one honestly don't care that someone's cousin's niece bought a pair of shoes just like one of the Kardashians wore. I don't really know what a Kardashian is anyhow, or from what planet it came.
It becomes necessary to break silence when faced with sin. To speak clearly and lovingly. Honestly, is it kind and loving to stick our heads in the sand when people do something that can hurt them--or others? Of course not. Likewise, when people do things clearly contrary to godly principles, and therefore harmful to their lives here and with Christ, silence is definitely not golden.
Americans spend $21 billion a year on supplements to live longer, but assign a very different value to the lives of others. For instance, the New Jersey Legislature very recently passed a bill to make the state the 8th to allow physician-assisted suicide. The Governor is "looking forward to signing this...into law". In an Orwellian turn of phrase, he equates death with "dignity". A neighboring state passed a law with much celebration which allows abortions up to the very moment of birth, at which time she used to be called a baby. The Governor of Virginia floated the idea of after-birth abortions, which only a few short minutes ago was called murder. A professor at Princeton has written that babies until age 5 could, in good conscience be aborted. But wait, there's more-- he's a professor of ethics. I wish I was kidding.
Frankly, all this makes me a bit queasy. The remedy is easy to find in the Bible. For example, Psalm 139: 14 says: I praise you (God) because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. God has a different view of us. We are not a blot trashing the earth-god. Not some accidental sponge that's disposable when inconvenient.
Actually, in all the world, since the beginning of Creation, there has never been a person just like you. No one has your handwriting. There has never been another person with exactly your eyes, nose, hair or voice. Nobody ever had the exact same tastes in food, cars, art, music or activities. You're the only one in all of Creation with your set of abilities. You're not just special, you are, in the precise meaning of the word--unique. But you're not perfect, either.
And Easter says that we are valuable enough for God to come to earth and die so we can have the chance to have life. We get to live a forgiven life with meaning here in "the land of the shadow of death"--and live forever in the perfect World in the presence of God.
So don't spend too much of your time dwelling on the need & cause for Easter--sin, evil & death. But do speak up for Truth! One of the reasons to celebrate Easter is to remind us to think & talk about Easter and the life-giving, death-defying gift it is. Sharing the new life of Easter--is golden. Pastor Geoff For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 6: 23 “The people living in darkness have seen a great light; on those living in the land of the shadow of death a light has dawned.” Matthew 4: 16
March 2019 “In Like a Lamb AND a Lion!”
When I was a grade-school kid growing up in Michigan, March would come along and my teachers often said: "If March comes in like a lion, it goes out like a lamb." They were trying to give us hope of warmth and an end of shoveling. By 5th grade, I wasn't buying it, because in Michigan, March usually came in like a lion--and went out like a lion. Sometimes it seemed more like tigers were involved. Old grade-school art even at Easter usually displayed snow.
It's much more mild here, and a bit of sweep-able or ski-able snow is lovely. Still, one of the ways I find a temporary joy in the winter, even this rather pleasant and mild one, is with a website going in the background on my computer. It's a Spring count-down clock showing a patch of tulips swaying in a gentle breeze while birds sing. It's a lovely and hopeful reminder that even in a mild winter (so far!) with the sun feeling warmer each week, Winter isn't forever and Spring's a-comin'!
March is also the month Lent begins, this year on the 10th, six weeks before Easter / Resurrection Sunday. I'm reminded that throughout the Bible (yes, the OT too), Jesus is referred to as the Lamb of God. Why? Because God allowed himself to come as a man and then be the once-for-all sacrifice so those who accept him & believe can be forgiven for thier wrongs and be at peace with God. Our new life begins because of the Lamb of God.
This new life brings an end to the winter of sin. That cold, lonely, selfish, willfulness where love and real joy don't grow and look dead--are dead. The cold heart toward God that can't even imagine the warmth and Eternity God offers to all in Jesus and delivers to all who accept him on faith and follow him.
Jesus is also referred to as the Lion of Judah. Why? Because he is the King of Creation and Ruler of the life of the Christian. He raises the bar of behavior so our fresh, new lives grow and point to the astonishing magnificence of God. As we mature as Christians, we realize that life is better & more meaningful when we really act like Jesus is our Lord, our ultimate, all-powerful boss.
Why both? If the average person has many sides--husband, dad, friend, boss, employee, mechanic, chef--what kind of Creator or Savior--God would not be far more multi-faceted? It's a significant mistake to think of Jesus in one-dimensional, simplistic, human terms.
So Jesus comes in like a Lamb AND a Lion! The humble Sacrifice for all people who admit that he is who he says he is. And the King of Creation deserving and expecting our joyful, willing obedience. And. The only one who offers the eternal perfect warmth of his presence. Even better than a field of tulips!
Pastor Geoff and one of the elders said to me, "Stop weeping; behold, the Lion that is from the tribe of Judah, the Root of David, has overcome Revelation 5:5
Pastor Geoff's Perspective “I Pledge Allegiance” Feb.2019
My son and I were out and about and while he was off roller skating, I chatted with other parents. One of the many things that came up was the assertion one made that the only other country that has its school children recite a pledge of allegiance is North Korea. The implication being that the unique goals the U.S. has of rule by law and freedoms with responsibility, are somehow identical to the fear-filled worship of a capricious man of dubious stability simply because children in both nations begin their days reciting a pledge to honor their respective country. Aside from being a preposterous non-sequitur and attempt to shame Americans into having no positive national self-image, it is also not fact. Merely cursory research shows quite a few other nations which have a pledge of allegiance--and North Korea was not even mentioned in what I saw. The idea gives me a few thoughts, though. First, just because one shuns a statement of national allegiance, it doesn't mean he has no allegiance to anything! The most hard-hearted, anti-American who's ashamed of her country has allegiance to something. It may be inconsistent, foolish, against the nation one calls home or even self-destructive, but there's something.
Since the allegiance means (per free dictionary online) "devotion or loyalty to a person, group, or cause", it stands to reason that we should be selective to what or whom we have allegiance. Few "persons, groups or causes" have your best interests at heart. Many people choose these that give temporary results: everything from escape, to other people, to some "save the____". Christians commit to follow Jesus understanding that there are changes now and the reality of Eternity with God which he delivers.
The Christian must not give up allegiance--even when what we want is not delivered. Being Christian doesn't mean we have a new talisman to rub and get what we demand. That's not faith. It means we have a new way to live life for someone and something not merely bigger than ourselves, but a life to follow what our Creator created us for--new life in Christ. This is something worth our allegiance, even--no, especially--when times are tough. Of course, many take the credit when things are just swell and need to be reminded of allegiance to God. Personally, I need the reminder of where my allegiance needs to be. Yes, I pledge to my flag and my country. But first and foremost every Christian I've ever met benefits from being reminded of his or her pledge to God. And this renewal, refreshment, encouragement is strongest in a Bible-preaching church, with others. Pastor Geoff
Pastor Geoff's Perspective “Happy New Year” Jan. 2019
It's that time of year when some people look back to review the events of the past 12 months and look forward to a fresh start. Somehow a new calendar can give us a new set of hopes for the new year. I convinced myself that my 2018 calendar with the large, full-color pictures of tropical beaches and palm trees made the Year of Rain more tolerable and somehow warmer.
Certainly, learning lessons from the past year and planning to apply them to the upcoming year is a worthy endeavor. What to learn this year? What to accomplish? How to do it?
But very often looking at the past can make me yearn for the future to be unchanged. ---At least the things I like! Oooh, if my property taxes of 2019 would be identical to 1998!! Sometimes "new" is NOT "improved". This is why efficiency experts talk about the fact that when starting anything new, managers must deal with "resistance to change". It's human nature. When things change, anything at all, most are quick to let you know that they don’t like it.
The more challenging changes and circumstances we encounter, and the more disappointment we see in people, the more we may begin to wonder--Is there anywhere we can find some reliable stability?
The truth is, there is only one thing that never changes, the one that stays the same: the Lord God. In the Bible, Malachi 3: 6 tells us God's words: "For I the LORD do not change; therefore you, O children of Jacob, are not consumed " There is no transition, inconsistency, or change in this God. The same God who created this unique blue planet. The one who gives us the ultimate peace offering in Jesus so we can live life confident of a life of meaning here and life in His amazing presence after. Anything I can imagine about Heaven can only be a speck of the reality.
The idea of God being changeless is no mere phychological fuzzy blanket. No, His stability is reality and essential to any unflawed idea of God. If God changes, it means any or all of the following: 1. That He is or has been incomplete; 2. That He forgot something; 3. That he is a slave of time; 4. There's something He didn't know and needs to address; or 5. He's a victim of circumstances & events. All of which are preposterous for any worthy of worship. (Does this mean God is stiff, unfeeling or distant? Watch this newsletter!)
God does not change in His nature, His character or His purpose. The unchanging nature of God and His unchangeable Word are real things on which we can stake our lives. So even though the calendar changes, God does not. This means that as we look at the new year, let's plan with God's stability and purposes primary in our hearts and minds. Pastor Geoff
Pastor Geoff's Perspective “Merry Christmas” December 2018
People say that as we advance in years, time seems to go faster. I do notice it and hope it doesn't advance to the point that I wake up this morning and it's already tomorrow. With that in mind, if you haven't been in a store since October, you may not know the Christmas season is upon us! Advent begins the first Sunday in December and is a good time to start thinking about the purpose of Advent--preparation for the coming of the Christ.
One of the things that this time always brings is that "Happy Holidays" problem. You know, the question of what we say to people in stores who say the lawyer-approved, ACLU-proof, let's-not-offend-the-media greeting of "Happy Holidays". To people who are Christmas shopping, at Christmas sales, for Christmas presents in an effort to celebrate Christmas. Hmm. If all this decoration and hubbub have nothing to do with Christmas and only some vague holiday, then where are the July 15th St. Swithin's Day sales? Where, I ask, are the giant inflatable candy bars in celebration of National Chocolate Day (Oct. 28)? Christmas has meaning.
Personally, I resist the urge to reply with "And a Happy Excess Commercialism Day to you!" No, I see this as an opportunity to simply say something like "I celebrate the birth of Jesus, feel free to wish me a Merry Christmas. Will you be celebrating Jesus' birth?" The people to whom I've said this (or something like it) have universally looked relieved and said "Merry Christmas." Simple, gentle & provokes thought about Jesus.
The fact that I feel the need to address this says that Satan is scared. He is working hard to shove the real significance and opportunity of Christmas aside and replace it with a commercial day of gifts, family & food. Not that gifts, family & food are intrinsically bad, but they are shallow substitutes for a Savior who offers us eternity, forgiveness and the conquest of sin. Ah, sweet distractions. If we can be distracted from preparing and discussing Eternity and the return of Christ--so much the better, thinks the Enemy. Beth Moore wrote: "If destruction fails to entangle us, distraction will do its best."
Be encouraged then, Advent and Christmas are preparation and celebration of God's love for us seen in God coming to earth as Jesus to conquer sin and eternal death. And such a celebration can't come too soon! Pastor Geoff Stanley
Pastors Perspective Oct 2018
If you get to know me for any length of time, you'll soon discover that I'm no particular fan of cold weather. I try to make the most of the brief daylight hours by baking, having hot coco and cross-country skiing if there's actually snow and not just frozen tundra. But it often comes to mean cold feet & cold hands—even in the house! You might think I'd be nostalgic and fond of the cold since I spent a bit more than my first couple of decades in a town in Michigan that promises an overnight low of 37 degrees this early October. My son thinks that I just didn't know any better as a kid.
This all gets me thinking about these changes of seasons & smells, when flowers and leaves turn cold & dead-looking, which then become warm & full of hope & life. Through these changes we still know that Spring eventually becomes Winter (for those of you who actually miss the life-sucking cold weather)—or that Winter eventually becomes Summer . These are predictable changes in which we can still see the hand of God--- His sustenance, His promise of new life.
The Bible often uses the word “seasons” to mean changes or times of life people pass through. It's easy to miss God's presence in these. But He is present. And each event, situation, joy or difficulty gives us a choice. Take the opportunity to rely more on Christ, to see and know that his presence and sustenance are real.
Just as the attentive—and safer—driver looks well beyond the bumper ahead, Christians are to look beyond the present season. Prepare for the cold, but count on God's real presence. Be confident that what we see is minuscule compared to what God offer through Christ. If you're not sure what this means, I hope you'll ask me. 2 Corinthians 4:18 says: “So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.” Yes, what we see changes, but God is still most important. His promise of forgiveness in Christ and eternal life with God may not always be seen now, but we can live life in joyful confidence that they will be as obvious as the changing seasons. Pastor Geoff Stanley
Pastor Geoff FEB.2018
It doesn't take long to realize that some drivers are convinced that they’re the center of the universe—that everything actually does revolve around their importance. Okay, maybe it's a lot more than just some drivers. I’m convinced that they’re wrong, if they were any kind of driver, they’d be where they belong—behind me!
A “lifeboat ethic” says “I’ll behave in a civilized manner until it no longer serves my purpose. I’ll use sweet, selfless phrasing, but make no mistake—it’s really about ME.”
Having confidence in what one can do is not a bad thing—until it becomes too confident. Then we start dancing with being self-absorbed and arrogant, even irrational in belittling the significance of anything other than our own self.
Of course, self-confidence can run the gamut all the way down to being fearful and feeling useless, insignificant or lacking in talents. Back in the old days when there were book stores, one of the largest sections sold “self-help”. Still true wherever one gets reading material now.
But God has given us significance. We are created with talents. And Christians have things called gifts. These are things we can do not because of some natural ability, but something God allows us to do out of our comfort zone so we have to have faith in His power, not our own. Real power is not some force from within us, but is given—loaned--to us.
A New York Times article stated that merely thinking about God causes people to make bolder choices. A Stanford study showed that reading about God before making choices involving risk caused people to more often choose the riskier option with the greater payoff. Interesting.
Imagine going a step beyond merely thinking about God, but having confidence in God rather than ourselves! What results could be if we plan with God's direction and then act knowing that he is real and in charge? We would make bold choices. Not only brave in the face of physical danger (and that is enormous), but brave in the face of some other fear-inspiring event. Brave in parenting, in work or family trouble, in a medical condition that doesn't just go away, or after the death of a beloved person.
People thinking about God and more—Accepting our need of Jesus the Christ as the one who saves us from our wrongs and offers us Eternity. Then taking the remarkable step of having a relationship with him through prayer, reading what God has to say (the Bible) and developing along with other people in a local group of God's people. That last is more usually called a church. One where the Bible is faithfully preached and where people work to be more like Christ, not just be part of what people say is important.
Wow! That's living! To be selfless yet fulfilled, to stand firm in trouble, to prioritize doing what is right and best by God's standards. Working for the Creator and real center of the universe, not trying to be that center.